Hobo is in LOVE

Hobo

OK folks, i have fallen victim to something i never thought i would be a part of.... i have met a girl..... on the internet. Totally not my idea of a good place to meet women. A friend of mine met up with a girl he met through Myspace.... turned out she was a good 4 years younger than she claimed (making her illegal), I've only heard bad outcomes of meeting people online amongst people i know.

To make it even more ridiculous, i met this girl on a video game called World Of Warcraft. But thats part of why this girl is so perfect for me, besides the fact that she loves pot as much as i do, loves music as much as i do, and wants to peruse it as a career, on top of being gorgeous as hell, just being a girl that i couldn't of thought up as being more perfect for me.

We have been talking casually for 8 months, and seriously for about 3 months... and she is coming to visit me this friday. This will be my first time meeting her in person.... I feel like i know enough about this person to be in love, and i think i am.... but the true test will be living with her for 10 days.... sooo WISH ME LUCK! lolol

So what do you guys think, did i make the worst decision of my life taking a risk like this? Am i a loser for meeting a girl on a video game? Would you guys ever see yourself caught up in something like this?

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PS i am a pathological liar, and have illusions of grandeur. I post pictures of pot plants i found on the internet and i have never nor will i ever consider the cultivation of marijuana, as it is illegal.

MRX

Wish u all the luck HOBO....My all ur dreams come true...Remember wash ur balls(ala Employee of the month)

thenoffya

Good luck.

Keep your dirty underwear off the floor. I find that helps with the ladies alot.

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knottyd

Go for it. The heart wants what the heart wants. You'll never know unless you try.

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I may say or do things to get you to like me, that includes lie, cheat and steal. So i'm going to appoligize now if somethings I say or do turns out to be a lie. I may lie, cheat, and steal..BUT I WOULD NEVER BREAK THE LAW!!!!

ISO2BWELL

Hobo, my new cyber-friend...WE NEED TO TALK...

First: You are NOT a loser. In any sense of the word.

Trust me on this, I have been where you are, and know what I'm talking about.

The ground you are treading on here has the potential to be damn dangerous..VERY dangerous, or it could be wonderful...that is the draw people have to meeting the opposite sex on the web..it is a mystery and challenge.

Understand I am not being critical of you...I also know how painful being alone and miserable in this world is.

While it is possible she is all the things she says she is, and that she is a very sincere lady and serious about you, or, she is telling you what you want to hear in order to gain your trust enough so that, when you do meet her, you will not bolt at the first word.

My third wife I met on the web as well. I knew her Pastor, and some of her friends, and they all told me she was a very good woman.......BUT........they also decided not to tell me she had a very serious mental illness.

Hobo, I had agreed to marry that woman, and for 9 months she emotionally abused me till I said "ENOUGH!" and told her it was over (I had to have the police come help me get away from her, due to the large knife she was holding over me...). Then, her family finally told me about her mental illness, and that she had seemed "all better" when she met me...yeah, just long enough to get me to the alter and take the vows...then the hell started. :losthead:

I had met many gal's before via the internet that, while they were nice gals, they sure as hell weren't all they made themselves out to be on the net. I always made every attempt to let them know that I was just like what I told them...and very few were equally as honest.

This could be wonderful for you, or a nightmare...but you are no fool for wanting to be loved by some one special.

Take that "Love" word and set it aside for awhile...spend some time, IN PERSON with this girl before you every consider making any commitments...I know you are no fool, but don't let your need for companionship (or your Willie!) get in the way of your common sense no matter what.

I wish you nothing but the best and all the happiness you can handle...but take it one step at a time. You know some things about this woman, now you need to get to know her in real life and see if she is all she said she was. If you have both been 100% honest with one another you may have a wonderful future together.

All the best to you both in your new adventure!

ISO

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MRX

Right on the nose ISO

digix

I was into the World of Warcraft scene for pretty much a solid 2 1/2 years, and while I met plenty of crazies in the game, there were many honest, trustworthy, genuine people as well. Some of my best friends at the time in the game actually did get together and they just recently settled down together at his place in Colorado (she was from Canada).


I wish the best for you and hope that everything works out, but as ISO said, keep your head(s) in check and watch out for yourself at the same time.

Good luck

-D

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Hobo

Well this is why she is coming to visit, i have to see if she is... either, crazy... has 6 toes, or horrible breath or something. Like i said im not one to fall for this type of thing, but i am very much in a stage with her where im trying to get to know her, and you just cant do that over a phone and computer. So its just part of the process, and i thank you iso for taking the time out to give me your take and experience on the matter, but i hope you can trust i have good judgment.

thanks everyone

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PS i am a pathological liar, and have illusions of grandeur. I post pictures of pot plants i found on the internet and i have never nor will i ever consider the cultivation of marijuana, as it is illegal.

ISO2BWELL

No, sadly you can't (yet..that technology is being developed..LOL!)



I do trust in your good judgement, but will you ? (hence, the suggestions to take your time...if she is that special then you have a lifetime).

Good luck Hobo...hope she is your dream lady!

ISO

btw: My wife is the greatest gal I've ever known and we've now been together for 8 years and happily married for 6 years, as we took an additional 2 years of living together to get to know each other better, THEN I popped the question. I wouldn't trade her for all the beauty queens in Hollywood, and I met her on Yahoo Singles. She loves me more than life, as I do her, and neither of us is what you would call a "prize" in the looks department (real love has little to do with looks, I have learned). It does end well some times!

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MRX

Hobo, this is MRSX, I sometimes post on here on MRXs name, but I'm sure you all know the difference because we "talk" differently. He's a little more laid back. I can understand your current situation. I've heard both good and bad stories. (ISO so sorry you went through that) You seem to be a very smart level headed guy. My only advice is don't let your little head do the thinking while she's there, continue just like you normally would. I want to share something with you from a friend's site. It opened my eyes to how sometimes we call it love because we have no other word for what we are feeling. Take it with a grain of salt in you want. PEACE.

Infatuation is fleeting desire: one set of glands calling to another. It is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about the relationship that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. It is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence even when he is away. Miles do not seperate you. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him." Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intamacy. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's being unfaithful. Sometimes, you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels your trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you better than you were before.