Thanks Pappy, my oldest is only 16 and just bought his first car. a BMW.
At 14 he became a CNA, all on his own. He made almost 40k at 15 years old.
While doing this, he maintains good grades in school too.
He likes to wear his hair very long, what can I say to him....NO?
Of course not, he can do what he wants, because he is basically a very good kid that I am proud of. He is very active in wrestling and football too.
In his case, he's very focused on life, so I don't sweat the little things with him.
I also, tend to forget, and project myself onto him, but thats wrong, and I have learned to listen to him.
He has a g/f now too, and she spends the night here sometimes, and that had me up in arms, so I talked to the two of them, turns out she is a virgin. He dosent pressure her to have sex at all, and the two of them are very happy with this arrangement.
I just assumed that if she slept over, he would be doing the deed, but again, I was thinking what I would be doing! lol
I have absolutely no reason to think that he has lied to me either.
Peace |